Today I am going to share about my absolutely most favorite family focused tip...family nights!!! We have had a set family night for years and it is one of the most critical traditions that we have found at our house...especially as the girls get older and we get busier.
Each week we set aside one night designed only for our family. We don't have people over, we don't watch TV, we don't do our own personal things...we spend time as a family. Our family night has changed over the years and it has looked different from year to year. But, here are the basics...
Dinner - we almost always have dinner at home that night. We try to choose a night where I am able to cook a large family meal with all the fixins. That night is a special sit down at the dining room table together kind of night. We almost always have candles. (the girls love this) and we choose some nice instrumental music. We also work on manners that night too. We also play a game around the table called "high low." Each family member goes around and shares their high for the day and their low. It's so great to hear from each person the good and the bad of the day. Our girls have been able to do this from a very early age. It's something that pretty easy for all age groups to talk about!
Dessert - OK, I love to make desserts...and my family LOVES to eat desserts! So, that night I try to find a fun dessert for us all to eat or, even better, to make together. I look online for fun things that are either seasonal or just plain fun! Family Fun online has tons of great ideas!
Fun - That night we try to do something different and fun together. Sometimes we go out for bowling, roller skating, ice cream, etc. Most of the time we stay home and just do fun art projects, crafty things, family board games, outside things like Frisbee or bike riding or walking, nature hunts, dollar movies, or anything that we want! It doesn't need to cost money...in fact...most of the most fun we have is completely free!
Consistent - We make this top priority in our family. We know that right now the kids love every minute and look forward to each family night and the surprises it will hold. But...as they grow older...we want this to be a consistent way for us to connect as a family. Some weeks it is hard to fit in. But, there is always at least one night that we can find time for a family night.
Now, you may look at your family and think that there is no way that you can do a family night every single week. Well, start with once a month! Make it consistent, make it really fun, make it super special, and make it a priority!!
You don't have to do it like mine. Your night maybe ordering pizza and getting a fun board game out! It might be chicken nuggets from McDonald's and 15 minutes of dancing in the den after bath time in your jammies with your 1 year old. It could be a hot chocolate night cuddled up on the couch watching a fun movie the kids pick. You see? It can be just about anything you do together as a family.
We have found as our family grows and changes...so should our family night. But, it always stays our family night. It is an incredible way to connect with the hearts of our family and to stay connected. Try it this month! Start small, keep it real to your family, and have a BLAST together!
